Book review by Genevieve S. Kineke
Copyright © 2006
There
is no doubt that we have been subject to many Women Who Make
the World Worse in recent years, and Kate O'Beirne explains
why with sharp wit and cutting terms. While clearly making
her case against women in combat, the author herself takes
a machine gun to the work of feminists, and in chapter after
chapter demolishes the integrity and mission of angry activists
who have attacked western culture as a patriarchal plot to
oppress women. Using a parade of statistics, anecdotes, and
strategies gone amuck, she has ample intellectual ammunition
to shred the sisterhood which has worked so hard for decades
to shred society.
Most of the ironies she points out are lost on these women,
who want men to suppress any chivalrous instincts or protectiveness
towards their fellow female soldiers in the field but to
undergo sensitivity training about women's feelings in all
other realms of life. They have proclaimed "choice" a
sacred right, and yet do a constant end run around women's
choice if is not used to further the feminists' own cause.
In a humorous vein, women want to be taken seriously in the
quest for equality and intellectual competitiveness, and
yet they swoon, pout, or rage like adolescent school girls
at any comments they find offensive or untenable. Less funny
is the constant provocation of men, through male-bashing
and reverse discrimination, which combine to create resentment
and bitterness between the sexes in nearly every arena of
daily life.
Women in the first half of the 20th century spent a great
deal of energy working to enhance the moral fiber of their
men, through prohibition, by encouraging all women to remain
virtuous and chaste as a brake for promiscuity, to dedicated
themselves to strong families, and by raising their sons
to aspire to be gentlemen. What frustration there was at
a double-standard for chastity was evidently thrown out the
window when these women discovered that motherhood was their
ball and chain, and they decided that, with ample access
to birth control and abortion, they could be as naughty as
the worst of the men and abandon the children to drift with
the popular culture.
She quotes Mary Ann Glendon's comments of the difference
between the early feminists, who knew that "the ready
availability of abortion would facilitate the sexual exploitation
of women," and those who followed in the 1970's, who
were, she says, "a puzzling combination of two things
that do not ordinarily go together: anger against men and
promiscuity; man-hating and man-chasing" (p. 161).
After years of feminists battles in politics, the military,
and the academy, women can now claim great strides "forward," including
promiscuity in record levels, burgeoning STD's, fully one-third
of children being raised without the guidance of their fathers,
increased combat-related casualties for women, 40 million
abortions, vulgarity at all hours on the airwaves, and rampant
depression and psychoses. And yet, they insist, there is
much more to be done. God help us!
Kate is to be commended for making her case so clearly.
Categorically, she explains how women in combat, women's
studies programs, no-fault divorce laws, Title IX, and demands
for parity in the workplace are coercive, damaging, and based
on lies. The enemy is clearly outlined in terms of strategy
and end games, but I had a sense that two things were missing.
First, the bizarre motivation was not investigated, and secondly,
the effects of the negatively transformed culture to which
we are heirs is not adequately considered.
There is brief mention in the introduction of the dysfunctional
backgrounds of a few feminists, such as Jane Fonda, Germaine
Greer, and Betty Freidan, but the topic is not pursued. While
parodying these women is simple, I think a better (more motherly)
approach would have been to explain the pain that drives
these women. Without giving in to their agenda, showing how
the "personal" details of a group of women became
the "political" for the masses would have been
more fruitful.
The second reservation is more important, because Kate makes
her case about the choices of the next generation - who are
rejecting the full-monty of the feminist dream. Instead,
she points out that they are choosing education without the
help of government programs, motherhood despite the difficulty
of finding men who will commit, and balance in order to keep
their lives from fraying at the edges. "See," the
author seems to say, "women don't need feminism; they're
doing just fine." I don't buy it.
Whereas the feminist agenda is wrong on almost every point,
these women were reacting against something that was oppressive,
stifling, and defective itself. We rejoice in many of the
choices we have in education, work, and family decisions,
but we have to admit that these were not available in 1955.
The angry spark lit by the few certainly grew out of control
through a positive response on a popular level - which was
effectively studied in Caroline Graglia's Domestic Tranquility.
(Only by reading these books together will the feminist movement
be understood.)
Finally, in commending the new generation for choosing to
have more balanced lives, she seems to ignore her own statistic
revealing rampant fatherlessness, politicized school curricula,
and a depraved and intrusive youth culture. Do these matter
or don't they? How did common sense prevail when feminists
stacked the deck against it in the next generation. Perhaps
the human soul is hardier than we think, or the prayers of
many stalwart souls have won out over dangerous social experiments.
Regardless, it was a question which hung in this reviewer's
mind as she pored over so much triumphalist data, proving
that feminists are out-dated, mixed-up, and un-hinged. Would
that Kate is right, but I don't think the bulk of the healing
is even close to being done.
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